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CONTENTS           
    
THE REGULARS                  FEATURES      
Stress Tip

Detoxification: Organophosphates

Quote
Al's Column: My personal 'battle of the bulge'
Book Review    Meditations

New section: Stress Stories

 

THE REGULARS

 
STRESS TIP 
 
Stop Look and Listen to prevent unwanted thoughts

Stress is frequently caused by what we think about.  If you find yourself either worrying about a future event or if you can’t get a bad experience out of your mind try the following.

Firstly, write down the worries or ruminations you want to stop, this raises your awareness of them. 

Secondly, the next time you find yourself dwelling on these unwanted thoughts interrupt the thought process by shouting in your mind (or out loud if you want to) STOP !

As soon as you shout stop bring yourself back into the here and now by looking at everything around you and listening to everything around you.   

If you focus your attention on what you can see and hear in the present it is impossible to worry about the future or past at the same time.

If you persevere with this exercise for a few weeks you will find you can banish unwanted thoughts that can cause you stress.

Alastair Taylor


 
QUOTE
 
People in their handlings of affairs often fail when they are about to succeed. If one remains as careful at the end as one is at the beginning, there will be no failure.

Lao-Tzu
(Chinese Philosopher, Founder of Taoism, Author of the Tao Te Ching)

 
BOOK REVIEW              
 
Dorothy Rowe's Guide to Life  by Dorothy Rowe
 
The central theme of this book is that as human beings that interpret the world around us, our reality is really our interpretation of reality.
 
Rowe tackles the main areas that we all try to make sense of in life: identity and self-esteem, fear of death, depression, coping with other people, power, guilt and coming to terms with getting older.
 
Her pertinent observations can make you stop in your tracks!  Here are a few extracts from different chapters in the book: 
 
You and other people
'..Understanding other people is hard work, yet if you don't make the effort, you miss out on those wonderful experiences which dissolve the barriers which you and others have constructed and thus lessen the aloneness of our individual lives...'
 
Your emotions
'..The emotions we feel are not directly a consequence of what other people do.  They are a consequence of how we interpret what other people do...'
 
You and how you feel about yourself
'..The better  you feel about yourself, the better the world and the future look.  The worse you feel about yourself, the worse the world and the future look...'
 
You and Your priorities
'..If you don't know what matters most to you, how can you make sure you get it?..'
 
The book is interspersed with lots of amusing sketches which pick up on the neurotic behaviour we all have from time to time.  Just like the text, they always seem to hit the nail on the head!  They made me laugh out loud, which I always class as a good sign!
 
The final chapter of this book is really a list of recommended reading if you wish to explore the concepts further.  Funnily enough all the recommended books are also written by a certain D. Rowe!  However, given that you know with Rowe's books that you are generally getting one with a realistic approach that is easy to read and includes a bit of humour along the way,  this may be no bad thing.  Just keep in mind that there are other alternatives!    
 
I have already got a list of people I would like to send this book to, however, I'm not sure if sending someone a 'guide for life' for Christmas creates the right impression! 
 
Dorothy Rowe's Guide to Life  by Dorothy Rowe
 
Jan Lawrence

 
FEATURES

The Third Article in the Toxicity Series by Dr David Mason Brown….

ORGANOPHOSPHATES

The organophosphates originated from the German nerve gas, Sarin, developed in World War Two.  After the war it was necessary to try to feed the millions of starving people in war-torn Europe and it was found that if you removed the part of the gas that was fatal to humans, what was left killed insects.  Unfortunately it is being increasingly recognised that the remaining part of this pesticide was toxic to part of the human population.  This article is written for anyone who has a negative reaction to organophosphates.  Many people come into contact with them and have no noticeable negative effects, it is those who experience negative symptoms that have to be careful.

Nowadays, organophosphates are used in chemical pesticides used by farmers throughout the world on crops, in sheep dip, and for other uses such as fly strips (now banned) and head lice shampoos.  For some reason wheat concentrates the organophosphates in its grains more than any other cereal.  So, many people, who may have been told they cannot take wheat actually can if pesticides have not been used eg. organic wheat products.  As a result many people may think that they have a wheat allergy when in fact it is an organophosphate sensitivity.

Once organophosphates are in the bodies of susceptible individuals they are very toxic.  They can cause a variety of symptoms.  

The following is taken from the Journal of Nutritional and Environmental medicine:

The Most Common Symptoms taken from a group of people sensitive to Organophosphates in Wheat are:

  • Generalised tiredness
  • Easy tiring of muscles after exercise
  • Weariness not improved by rest
  • Un-refreshing sleep
  • Cardiac irregularities
  • Nausea
  • Easy bloating after meals
  • Feeling sleepy after meals
  • Chronic headaches
  • Poor memory
  • Poor concentration
  • Irritability
  • Free-floating anxiety
  • Feelings of tension
  • Feelings of sadness for no obvious reason
  • Feelings of frustration

If you have seven or more of these symptoms you are considered to be wheat sensitive and should have a trial of organic wheat for three weeks, then introduce non-organic wheat, and if the symptoms return, stay on organic wheat for life.

Journal of Nutritional & Environmental Medicine (1995) 5, 243-253 Original Research A Clinical Evaluation of a Wheat-free Diet Dr Sheila L. M. Gibson et. al. Glasgow Homeopathic Hospital.

 

The organophosphates accumulate in the body.  Toxicity builds up, especially in the body fat.  Anti-oxidants such as Revenol and Oxyguard can be used to remove these toxins gradually.

Detox in someone with a susceptibility to organophophates can have very positive results, energy levels can increase dramatically and they may even find that they don't need as much sleep.

Dr David Mason Brown


AL'S COLUMN (it’s a long one this month): My personal ‘battle of the bulge’ 

Food is one of the great joys in life.  I’ve been a lover of food as long as I can remember, and undoubtedly before that also.  According to reliable sources (my parents) I used to go missing as a toddler and was generally found begging for food from somebody having a picnic.  When I was 12 and on holiday near where I used to live, someone came up to me, and said: “Remember me, you used to come along the beach looking for food.  We used to feed you and take you back to your family.”  I also begged when going round the shops with my Mum.  We lived in a village and all the shopkeepers knew me, and apparently fed me.  Most of them spoke Welsh but language is no barrier to the toddler on the hunt for goodies.

I think I must have developed a look (endearing, hungry, mild desperation), because people continued to feed me well into my twenties.  I had a sales job for a while that involved visiting potential customers at home, and people used to take pity on me.  I remember someone once cooked me a whole flatfish.  It was delicious. 

It will be no surprise to you then that I have struggled with my weight.  Indeed, a previous column also revealed that I am also partial to a glass of ale, which doesn’t help.  It was OK when I was in my teens.  I ate massive quantities, for example I used to eat six slices of buttered toast every night before going to bed, but was so active that I was like a rake.

As I became more slothful and slob-like in my twenties I started to put on the pounds and then the stones, and in early 1988 I weighed 17 and a half stone.  Not a pretty sight, even on my magnificently proportioned, 6 foot 3 frame.  I had to go on a diet and eventually decided to go to Weight Watchers.  My local class was in Morningside in Edinburgh (where a crèche is a collision between two motor vehicles).  I was the only male amongst about 50 women attending – I highly recommend it to those of you in search of the well-proportioned woman. 

Over a period of months I lost about four stone and became a lifetime member of Weight Watchers through my efforts, something I’m actually quite proud of but don’t share with everyone!  Ever since then I have been fascinated by the whole ‘diet class' thing.  The classes themselves were amazing, involving a pep talk and the ritual public humiliation of being weighed in front of everyone.  Of course it was OK if you had done well, but God help you if you hadn’t.  Our leader was a Morningside lady of the old school, who held no truck with quietly spoken excuses.  Weight ‘gainers’ were given a damn good dressing down.

While I was losing weight, I gradually found my own way, and can now confess that I didn’t really follow the ‘rules’, but carried on attending the classes because they were so entertaining.  I have become progressively more convinced that losing weight is as much about what goes on between your ears as what goes into your mouth.  Most people know about healthy eating. They know what they should be eating more of and less of, and know about exercise, yet we’re still getting fatter. And the projections on obesity are really quite disturbing. 

It’s only fitting that we end with Al’s recipe for losing weight:

Disclaimer: The above recipe is Al's and Al's alone, is biased, has not been rigorously tested, and is not based on scientific evidence, but rather on one man's 'battle of the bulge'.

Good eating
 
Alan Bradshaw


STRESS STORIES!
 
Do you have a story that you would like to send into us for the next copy of 'In Equilibrium'? 
 
Perhaps you have a good idea about combatting stress at work, maybe you have an experience that you think others would learn from?
 
We are looking for any of your experiences, humourous or deadly serious, signed or anonymous!
 
We will print the best story in the next In Equilibrium, if your story is printed we will send you a copy of the book we reviewed this month.  (Of course, if you tell us your name, you will also get the added benefit of instant fame!!)
 

MEDITATIONS
 
A Gardening Lesson!
 
'I was neurotic for years.  I was anxious and depressed and selfish.  Everyone kept telling me to change.  I resented them, and I agreed with them, and I wanted to change, but simply couldn't, no matter how hard I tried.  Then one day someone said to me, "Don't change.  I love you just as you are."  Those words were music to my ears: Don't change, Don't change.  Don't change......I love you as you are."  I relaxed.  I came alive.  And suddenly I changed!"
 
Anthony de Mello (Spiritualist Teacher)
 
How do you interact with "others" each day?
 
Do you give them the space to be whoever they are or do you convey a message that they need to change who they are in order for you to love them?
 
The gardener's role is not to create the plant or determine what kind of flower the plant will grow; rather, it is simply to create the space for that growth to become possible.  You wouldn't buy a geranium and then try to make the flower more like a lily.. would you?
 
As you will be aware, just like plants, people come in a million varieties, and each one requires its own particular care and space.  Each has the capacity for unfolding into something beautiful and amazing, given the right environment.
 
Letting others "be" means limiting the amount of "manure" we heap on them and giving them enough personal attention and space to unfold in their own way.
 
Something to ponder:
 
Think about your own relationships like a gardener tending a rose-bed, note the areas where you might interact with others differently in order to provide them with enough space, light, and human compassion to grow to their full potential.
 
Look at yourself from the same perspective, you know yourself better than anyone else, what climate do you need for growth? 
 

 
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Edited by Jan Lawrence