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Unclutter your wardrobe!
You may have heard of this uncluttering tip for paperwork - either "file it, bin it or act on it."
Well now you can use it for your wardrobe- "retain, repair, revamp or retire". How many minutes do you spend sifting through clothing that hasn't seen daylight for a couple of years? Uncluttering your wardrobe can have quite an effect on your mood and the time you have at the start of your day!
(Retire does not mean to the loft.......it means Oxfam!)
I first discovered Tony Buzan when
undertaking a psychology experiment at an Open University summer school in
Durham about 6 years ago. The
experiment was about memory and involved ways of distracting people who were
trying to remember about 20 different objects, which had nothing at all in
common. To our amazement 2 of
the eighteen or so people taking part in the experiment not only remembered all
the objects correctly, they also recalled them in the correct
order.
When asked how they were able to do this, both said they had read a Tony Buzan book. Intrigued I immediately rushed out and bought ‘Use Your Memory’. I found it fascinating, as it was full of detail about how the brain and memory work and how to put this knowledge to practical use. One of the memory techniques described involves linking whatever it is you are trying to remember to a setting or journey you are familiar with. This could be your own home or your daily journey to work. The trick is to then link or hook whatever you are trying to remember to familiar objects in your story. With a little practice this works very well, but the results improve even more when you bring emotions into the story. This technique helps with everyday items like names and dates but can also help you remember facts and figures for meetings and presentations. Buzan also explains the relationship between your emotions and your memories. If you think about this yourself you will find that your most vivid memories were highly emotional events, both happy and sad. He again explains how this knowledge can be used practically.
The Buzan Mind Mapping techniques are also of great use. I have used them very successfully to help to improve my understanding of organisations or structures that I previously found complicated and confusing. They are also a very effective way of taking notes at a lecture or a meeting. I have also found them to be an invaluable aid when making presentations or any other situation where you need to remember a lot of detail and how it links together. Whatever your need or interest, it is hard to image that you will not benefit from investing in a Tony Buzan book.
The latest article in the
‘increasing your energy’ series.... If you need convincing that your
energy levels are directly linked to your moods, consider the following. Think about the last time you
received really good news, like passing an important exam, the birth of a child,
the bid for your dream house has been accepted. What’s your natural reaction? Usually it’s to go and celebrate, and
regardless of what you’ve been doing or how tired you thought you were before
you heard the good news. Suddenly
you have all the energy in the world!
Another example is to observe the
athletes at the end of an Olympic final.
The difference in energy levels is striking, the winner is alert and full
of energy and usually sets off on a lap of honour. Contrast this reaction with the losers
who generally collapse to the ground exhausted. A lap of honour is the last thing on
their minds. So how can we use this natural
reaction to increase our everyday energy levels? There are two angles on this. Firstly, you can take action to lift
your mood from a normal level to somewhere higher whenever you feel the
need. Secondly, if you are lowering
you mood and energy by dwelling on bad memories from the past, then you can take
action to stop this. A simple way to lift your mood,
and your energy, is to first of all recall a number of good times in your life
when you experienced great happiness, pride, success etc. Now all you need is something specific
and easy to remember that can bring these good mood-lifting memories back to you
whenever you need them. You can try
linking them to a favourite song that was around at the time of the memory. This works really well for most people. You probably already have a song, which
every time you hear it, brings back the memories of a special event or holiday
from the past. From now on, don’t
rely on hearing it by chance on the radio.
Instead, every time you need more energy, play that song in you head and
reap the benefits. If however you find you are
lowering your mood and losing energy by dwelling on bad memories or future
worries, try the following. Every
time you find yourself daydreaming negatively shout the word STOP! in your
head. Next, take a few slow deep
breaths to relax yourself. Then,
most importantly, listen intently to what is going on around you. Try to count the number of individual
sounds you can hear, you’ll be amazed at how many there are. This simple exercise is very effective
at bringing you back to the present, and in so doing, stops you losing energy.
Remember, in common with all the
mental skills we suggest, you need to practice these exercises to get the full
benefit from them.
INCREASING YOUR ENERGY THROUGH
MOOD CONTROL
LET'S
BLAME THE APES
With
all the talk of the human genome I thought it would be good to take a look back
to our evolutionary ancestors, the apes.
Did you know, that in terms of our genes, we are 99% the same as our
nearest relative, the chimpanzee?
And if you’ve seen the pictures posted on the net, you’ll know that in
the case of the most powerful person in the world, that similarity is also
striking facially!
Few
would disagree that as animals go, primates are intelligent. But where did that intelligence come
from and how did it evolve?
Conventional wisdom dictates that our unique human intellect results from
pressures to develop tools and communication. But Comparative Psychologists have a
different view. They propose that
the driving force for evolution was social expertise, for example the subtle
manipulation of others and the need to outwit clever colleagues. This has been called the ‘Machiavellian
Intelligence Hypothesis’.
This
is an important distinction. Since
Victorian times man has been trying to measure intelligence. We slowly developed intelligence tests
and came to talk about IQ scores.
If you have a small one, you are officially thick, dense, or solid, while
if you have a big one you are smart, a boffin, and generally
smug.
It
took us a ridiculously long time to work this out but, finally, some of those
boffins started to realise that some of the people with the big ones were in
fact remarkably unsuccessful humans.
We started to talk not of IQ but of EQ (Emotional Intelligence). It turns out that the Apes (and the
psychologists who studied them) had something after all. Social intelligence does matter, like
how we get on with people, how we manage relationships, and how aware we are of
our needs and the needs of others.
These are the things that predict success in life and work, not how
‘intelligent’ you are.
We
should never forget that we are social animals.
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