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Managing Mental Health at Work: Conversations


Please take a look at our latest film on the Do’s and Don’ts of Managing Mental Health Conversations at Work.


Managing Mental Health at Work: Conversations


What NOT to do

  • Start the conversation in front of other people, or when your mind is on other things.
  • Ask questions that could make the person feel pressurised e.g. “What’s up?”, “Are you stressed?”, “What is wrong with you?”
  • Try to diagnose.
  • Reveal personal information to colleagues without agreeing what is necessary first.
  • Rush in with another question before you have listened to the answer.
  • Agree to something you can’t see through
  • Use words that might lead the person to think you are focusing on medical diagnosis rather than feelings e.g. “you seem a bit manic”
  • Pressure the person to answer.


What TO do

  • Find somewhere neutral to have the conversation.  Plan it so you won’t bump into other team members and you both have some privacy.
  • Avoid interruptions by switching off electronic equipment including your phone.
  • Focus completely on listening to the person and only refer to info that will help you support them.
  • Use open questions in a relaxed style e.g. I was wondering how you were doing?”
  • Use non-judgemental language.  Keep things neutral e.g. you seem a bit low today?
  • Be consistent and reliable.  Make sure you have arranged a follow up meeting after the current one and then follow it up.
  • Give them lots of time to respond.  It may take longer depending on the nature of the condition and the nature of the conversation.
  • To build trust you must give thought to confidentiality.
  • It is very important to agree who else needs to know and what information is okay to share.

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